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"In an ideal world women could be strong, kick-ass, and intelligent without being objectified or assumed to be acting masculine. And our other strengths – even the traditionally feminine ones like mothering, or cooking, or artistry – will be seen not as things that make us safe because as the weaker sex we should be limited to them, but as strengths in and of themselves that are all part of the matrix of who we are (the Doctor Who Christmas Special this year did a fantastic job portraying this btw). As a mother my identity should not be reduced to that role, but neither should it be something I should be ashamed of or use to prove I can succeed at everything. Women should be able to be strong without having out out-violence or out-revenge the men. Women should be able to be smart without having to either be the smartest in the room or search for ways to make her intelligence acceptable to men. Women should be able to feel pretty and accept their sexuality without being turned into be eye-candy or live in fear that they are causing men to stumble. Women (and men) should be valued as themselves regardless of whether or not they fit traditional masculine or feminine labels."

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See: any female characters set in the fictional future.

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"Bottom line? As much as you wanted someone to change and believed they could, they were in control of their life. Not you. And you could throw yourself against the wall of their choices until you were black-and-blue and dizzy as hell, but unless they decided to take a different road, the outcome wasn’t going to be what you wanted."

— J.R. Ward, Crave (via formylittledecoy)

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"You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear."

Oscar Wilde (via misswallflower)

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"If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise don’t even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives, jobs. And maybe your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery, isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance. Of how much you really want to do it. And you’ll do it, despite rejection in the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you’re going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods. And the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It’s the only good fight there is."

— Charles Bukowski (via phamv)

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because sometimes all you need
is a pat on the head
a little hand in yours
a toothy smile
and the world can be beautiful
again

because sometimes all it takes
is to look up
shoulders straight
walk on bravely
and the world can be safe
again

because sometimes that’s all you get
no more no less
but just enough
to get you by
and the world can move on
again

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PC be damned! All I want is to be entertained!!

The really f*cked up thing about being an academic in media studies is the moment I start deconstructing a film/television programme/piece of advertising drivel, very quickly I lose the initial ‘OMG that was such an amazing piece of work’ feeling.

The reason this sucks is because it is really not my intention to be a cynical (perhaps ‘critical’ is more suited given the context) bitch and bag the writers each time I turn on the television and/or visit the cinemas. Like most people, I watch films because I want to ogle at pretty people be entertained. And given that I can’t act/direct/produce/write scripts to save my own skin, I really want to applaud the producer/director/scriptwriter and cast for a job well done. Unfortunately by the time the credits start rolling, I’m almost always distracted by how f*cked up the entire plot was.

I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one who thinks this way: Gender inequality, overt white superiority (or ‘whiteness’ to use Hage’s term), orientalism/occidentalism, class and more commonly these days, the very dismissal portrayal of LGBTQ and racial (or minority) nationalities.. I could go on but then this rant will become an essay so I’ll stop there and get on with what I’m trying to say which is, and please excuse the burst of hypocrisy, “is it really fair to expect fiction! writers to fix/address the world’s problems?”

I’m not saying that such portrayals are not problematic because they are in more ways than one. But short of casting 6 billion actors/actresses and giving everyone equal screen time and of course, intelligent/witty/awesome/none of those self-degrading stupid lines, I really think it is simply impossible to produce a politically-correct film.

Of course there is no harm in trying to create a rosy world. But in the event that doesn’t happen, well for gods’ sake, just move on and watch another film.

P/S In case you were wondering, here’s the post that incited (instigated?) this rant. In spite of its many flaws (here’s another damning post if you feel like reading more), I am for the moment well and truly obsessed with BBC! Sherlock. Maybe the lack of strong, decent and likable female characters will be addressed in Season Two. Maybe it won’t. I guess there’s little one can do but wait and see~

PP/S I’m pretty sure what’s written makes little sense.. it’s late and my brain is half asleep.. but ah well, I just needed to vent.

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A pictorial story of Sherlock’s coat. So awesome it needs to be shared =)

Be sure to follow the link at the bottom of the page for a story of John’s stripy sweater!

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Fortysomething

Hugh Laurie. Benedict Cumberbatch. Wicked UK Drama. Enough said. Someone up there loves me =D

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fabula:

We live in a time where flaws are to be hidden, mistakes forgotten and pain concealed. Our thoughts and imaginations and ambitions are overshadowed by appearances: the facades we plaster to our beings with cake makeup faces and false friends meant to disguise our true selves. 

So now more than ever we need to read. Our hours are riddled with technology and texting and multitasking. We have shortened attention spans that just worry, worry, worry and because we hear so often how we’re different or disappointing or less attractive or better or wore than everyone else, few people stop to realize we’re all really the same.

It seems everyone is under the impression that it’s so taboo to think these days. We’ve build the internet as a mecca of self expression and yet it’s frowned upon to express your opinions and beliefs in daily conversation. It can be an isolating feeling but…

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